21 Creative Ways To Make Sex More Fun.
There are a number of problems that couples may run into throughout their relationship, including the bedroom. This can happen if you're just starting out or if you've been together for years.
According to a survey conducted by the the Journal of the British Association of Urological Surgeons, nearly two-thirds of women deal with some sort of sexual dysfunction. The survey included responses from 587 women ages 18 to 95. The top issue was lack of desire at 47% while orgasm issues trailed closely behind at 45%. Some general trends include younger respondents tended to struggle with orgasms while older ones cited lack of desire and satisfaction.
When it comes to men, some of the most common problems in the bedroom include ejaculation disorders, erectile dysfunction, and a lack of sexual desire.
Maybe your issues weren't listed here, maybe they're more complex, emotional, psychological, or spiritual. Whatever you're dealing with, just know you're not alone. Below you'll find a few things that you can try out with your partner to improve your sex life.
Get tested and share your results.
STIs aren't just limited to a certain type of crowd. For example, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, at least 50 percent of people who are sexually active will have a genital HPV infection some time in their lives. Do what you can to stay educated about your own body and of your partner's. Be supportive of one another in the process.
Engage in some role playing.
Ever watch a scene of your favorite TV show or film that got you in the mood? Role playing isn't just for geeks. It can be really hot. Try it out. The key is doing the proper 'research' and relaxing into the role.
Compliment your partner instead of criticizing them.
The closer you are to someone, the more likely you are to criticize them. It's important to open up about your feelings, but it can be a real downer if you do this all the time.
Shed some positivity on the relationship by stopping to think about what you admire about your partner. For example, tell them you like their shoulders or the way they kiss your neck.
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Share your fantasies with one other.
This is a good one because as humans we're imaginative and our fantasies are constantly changing. Share them as they come. Keep an open mind and let your imaginations run wild.
Limit the use of any substances, including alcohol.
You don't want to associate any substances with your intimate experiences. Some folks will say that sex feels better on this or that, but at the end of the day, it takes away from the experience and can also put you in emotional and physical danger.
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