10 Signs You’ve Picked The WRONG Guy… Never Ignore #8.
You've been dating for some time now, and you want to know if it's serious. The best way is to have a direct conversation with the person in question. You should be able to speak openly and honestly with them, even if one or both of you are on the more timid side. Communication in relationships isn't dictated by how extroverted someone is, but on how comfortable and willing the two people are in letting each other into their own lives.
Below you'll find 10 signs that you're NOT his (or their) priority. Look, you don't have to be his only priority, but if you feel like the relationship is unbalanced, then it probably is. We hope that these don't sound familiar, but if a handful of them do, then it might not be worth the few good moments you have together.
#1. Does he often cancel on you or even stand you up?
This is a clear red flag. Sure, things will happen that will prevent him from being able to see you, but if it happens more than just a few times, then this is not a good sign. After all the time and energy you've set aside for him, if he's going to cancel on you, it should only be for a very good reason. He should at least have the courtesy to reschedule, and if he doesn't, then drop him.
#2. He does no wrong in your eyes.
Even when he really lets you down, you always make excuses for him. "He's just really busy" or "he's just really shy" can only last for so long. While you shouldn't let your friends make decisions for you, if they're turned of by his behavior, then don't assume that "they just don't know him." Try to think outside of your head and decide for yourself whether or not you're being treated fairly.
#3. He's still seeing someone else.
If you've already established that you're looking for something serious and he continues to casually date other people or is still hung up on an ex, don't play yourself into thinking that they're the other girl. You're just another option to him, and you shouldn't be treated that way at all.
#4. He's all about those last-minute, late night plans.
It's one thing to be spontaneous and another for you to always be part of his last-minute plans. This is especially true if he constantly contacts you at indecent hours. You might be tempted into thinking that he's sweet, which can be true in some cases, but more than likely, he hit you up because he was bored or wanted that one thing.
#5. But he doesn't invite you to important events, such as parties or dinners.
You know it's starting to get serious if he invites you to an important event, whether it be a family Christmas party or a graduation. If you find yourself only being invited to more casual outings, then it's probably because he considers it a casual relationship. Patience is a virtue, and foolishness is not. Use common sense and don't prioritize him if he is isn't doing the same for you.
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