10 Signs You’ve Picked The WRONG Guy… Never Ignore #8.
#6. You are the planner.
Yes, there are some cases when planning is part of your personality but if you're the only one making plans, then you might be getting the short end of the stick. Relationships should be balanced. If you find that there are no plans unless you make them, then chances are that he is extremely lazy (and do you want that?) or doesn't know your worth (you definitely don't want that).
#7. You remember everything he tells you, but he easily forgets everything you say.
You know his childhood hero, favorite drink, and his siblings' names, but if you've shared similar information with him and he is constantly asking you like it's the first time, maybe he's just not that into you. When you're genuinely interested in someone, you tend to soak in these details early on. They're like little presents that bring you closer together.
#8. He's called you "needy."
Your kindness, patience, and thoughtfulness toward him goes unappreciated. If you speak up about the fact that he doesn't put in an equal amount of effort and he responds by calling you "needy" or something equivalent, then the two of you just aren't on the same page. Don't think that you need to do more. This is never the case. He's simply not there yet, and you should trust your instincts on evaluating whether or not he could ever be.
#9. He avoids you.
Some folks prioritize their jobs, friends, or families, which are all things to respect, but we all set aside time for the people we care about, especially our love interests. Life isn't a fairytale, but if he does not treat you well or offer you his genuine attention (for example, you're constantly waiting for him to text or call you back, if at all), then don't expect that to change anytime soon.
#10. You're upset most of the time.
Your feelings are one of the strongest indicators in your relationship. Dating and relationships are never easy, but if you find yourself hurt more than happy, then just get yourself out of there. You're beautiful and if someone makes you forget that for a second, then you don't need them.
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