14 Non-Sexual Ways You Can Make Yourself Sexually Attractive.
It doesn't matter if you're interested in casually dating a person or looking for a committed relationship. The first step is catching their attention. The secret is that there are no tricks to this, and even if there were, you wouldn't want to trick someone into liking you, would you?
There are some people that are born with outstanding features, prominent lips or cheek bones for example, that are considered beautiful around the world. We shouldn't feel lacking if we don't have such things. Focusing on what we don't have often prevents us from sharing our own outstanding features.
More than anything, this post is about recognizing what makes you attractive, not making yourself attractive. From there, you can focus on highlighting these things and feel confident. That's right. You don't need to wish upon a star or undergo a drastic transformation. By taking care of yourself, you draw others closer to you in a way that won't come off when you wash your face at night.
Take a look at this list of attractive traits and let us know about any others that drive you wild (in the best way, of course).
You lead a life of fulfillment.
To understand what this means, you must first understand the difference between happiness and fulfillment. Susan Krauss Whitbourne Ph.D. wrote on Psychology Today that "happiness is a fleeting state that reflects your enjoyment of the moment in the present. You can feel happy, if only for a moment, for many reasons." Fulfillment, on the other hand, is something that "persists over time."
You know how to have a good time.
You don't have to pretend you're having fun with your group of friends or fake laugh, because you are actually having fun. Maybe you're funny, maybe you're silly, and it's adorable. Carry on.
By confident, we don't mean that you strut your stuff everywhere you go. We mean that you take pride in your mind, body, and soul. You view your flaws as challenges you can work through. You know how to motivate yourself. That's the kind of person anyone would be proud to stand next to.
Partners like to feel useful to one another, but no one likes a needy or overly dependent person. It feels like baggage, it really does. If you know yourself well and work hard at your job (this includes single mothers), then you're golden. You have proven to yourself that you are strong and can handle what life throws at you, and that's very attractive.
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You've got the magic touch.
Don't be afraid to use a little affection when talking to others. A gentle touch on the hand, knee, or cheek can go a long way. Don't be creepy though. Read the room.
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