12 Toxic Behaviors That Push People Away From You.

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Marc and Angel Chernoff are the authors of 1000 Little Things Happy Successful People Do Differently. They’ve spent over a decade coaching clients and helping people to get their lives back on track. Here’s one of their recent posts 12 Toxic Behaviors that Push People Away From You.


""" In our line of work, Angel and I hear from hundreds of coaching clients every month. Through this experience, we’ve come across scores of toxic behaviors that push people away from each other. And we’ve witnessed the devastation these behaviors cause – to relationships, to personal and professional growth, and to the general well-being of both the individual behaving negatively, and to everyone in their life. Let’s be honest – we’ve all acted in toxic, damaging ways at one time or another. None of us are immune to occasional toxic mood swings, but many people are more evolved, balanced and aware, and such occurrences happen only rarely in their lives. Whether your toxic behavior is a common occurrence, or just a once in a blue moon phenomena, it’s critical for your long-term happiness and success that you are able to recognize when you’re behaving negatively, and consciously shift your mindset when necessary. The twelve most common toxic behaviors we see are: """ **#1. Being envious of everyone else. – Don’t let envy (or jealously) get the best of you.** Envy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. There is nothing attractive or admirable about this behavior. So stop comparing your journey with everyone else’s. Your journey is YOUR journey, NOT a competition. You are in competition with one person and one person only – yourself. You are competing to be the best you can be. If you want to measure your progress, compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
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